Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) has been described as a software manual for the mind.
NLP is the practice of understanding how people organise their thinking, feeling, language and behaviour to produce the results they do.
It offers a definition of how the brain works (neuro), about how language interacts with the brain (linguistic) and how we use this interaction to get the results we want for ourselves and others (programming).
NLP was initially created by linguist Dr John Grinder and Gestalt Therapist Dr Richard Bandler in the early 1970's.
Both men had a fascination with human excellence which charted a path for them to model behavioural patterns of selected geniuses and high performers across a number of different industries and areas.
What they found was that it wasn't simply the behaviour that set these people apart in terms of performance, but rather a combination of their underlying beliefs, critical thinking processes and the use of their imagination that allowed them to consistently outperform others.
NLP provides a set of tools and techniques for tapping into this insight as a means to help people perform better in relationships, in business, in sports and more generally in life.
A map of reality is not reality. Even the best maps are imperfect. That’s because they are reductions of what they represent. If a map were to represent the territory it looks to represent with perfect fidelity, it would no longer be useful to us!
It is also worth noting that a map can also be a snapshot of a point in time, representing something that no longer exists.
A key element of NLP is that we form our unique internal mental maps of the world and it's this internal map, rather than the reality of what is happening to us or going on around us that defines our experience in life.
Knowing this means we can start to effect some changes to our own particular map as a means to live a happier and more abundant life.
Versus traditional psychotherapy, clinical hypnotherapy can be a more direct and potentially authentic means to heal old emotional injuries and change long term beliefs and perspectives.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a form of psychotherapy that emphasises the important role of critical thinking in how we feel and behave. CBT focuses on changing current thoughts and feelings rather than the past.
Living an emotionally healthier life is the key to living a happier life - and the happier we are, the better we perform in everything we do.
Or to put it another way, this is not a dress rehearsal!
We only get one shot at this thing called life - so if not now, if this isn't the time to embrace an opportunity for positive change, then when?
HAPPINESS IS AN INSIDE JOB!
Could you be more connected and more present during the good times, so you appreciate and enjoy them more?
Could you be more resilient and more positive during the tough times, so you feel less angst and more resourceful?
And could you feel more fulfilled and happier in the 80% of your life you spend in between?!?
If the answer to any of these questions is YES, we are very confident we can help you live an emotionally healthier life and as a direct result, a significantly happier and more abundant life.
Why not have a chat - it's free after all! We will ask some questions about you, your history and your specific circumstances. We will tell you whether we can help and if we can, more specifically how.
Get StartedSessions last up to 2 hours. The number of sessions will depend on the issue(s) you wish to resolve. For example - curing phobias requires 1 or 2 sessions whereas some addiction work may require up to 4 or 5.
Get StartedWe charge £300 per hour. Payment is due at the end of the session by card or bank transfer. Where we deem appropriate and where we can, we are happy to provide flexible payment terms or a discount.
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We will always be sensitive to clients needs and if we can change appointments around to avoid charging, which we usually can, we always will. That said, please be aware that any booking is subject to a rigid 24 hour cancellation / rearrangement policy. If we do not receive a minimum of 24 hours notice of a cancellation or re-arrangement, we reserve the right to charge for the appointment in full.
A lot of our potential clients are concerned about confidentiality but just like doctors and lawyers, maintaining client confidentiality is of utmost concern and sharing anything outside of their sessions would be a violation of our code of ethics. We do not digitalise any of our client notes and the paper versions remain locked away until they are shredded a few months after we have finished working together. Over the years, when a client has been very sensitive to the issue of confidentiality, we have been more than happy to sign legally binding Non Disclosure Agreements.
Other than for smoking cessation, we do not offer any guarantees. As you will have seen via Trustpilot, our approach proves remarkably effective so if you come to us with a real determination to succeed, you'll have an excellent chance of rapidly achieving your goal.
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"Today, I am loving myself again and I am no longer hurting myself. This is worth more than I ever thank Kirsten for"
"Steve didn't just help me kick my habit, he has also helped me rewire my mind which has impacted all areas of my life"
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Suite 8.7, Central House, 1 Ballards Lane, London, N3 1 LQ. The office is opposite Finchley Central Tube on the Barnet Branch of The Northern Line. There is plenty of street parking and the Tube car park - all at a small cost - or the Tesco car park is free :)
