Invest in connection - relationship hypnotherapy with The Therapy Lounge.
The quality of our closest connections has a huge bearing on happiness. When love, belonging, or trust feels strained, the rest of life can lose colour - even if work and logistics still look fine from the outside.
After the early ease, many couples find they are struggling to connect with the person they fell in love with. One person's anger, anxiety, perfectionism, or old injuries can quietly set the weather for both.
You are certainly not alone - and it really does not have to be this way.
At The Therapy Lounge, hypnotherapy is the primary approach we use to help each person understand their own patterns first - so the relationship has a better chance of breathing again.
We usually work with each partner individually to start, rather than jumping straight into a three-way conversation. Relationship strain often sits with anger, anxiety, or confidence. Those pages may also feel relevant.
Through a rapid, results-oriented style of hypnotherapy, many clients find more love, trust, and clearer boundaries become possible - often within a focused number of sessions, with couple work where it is useful later.
Relationship hypnotherapy works by helping each person update the unconscious patterns they bring into the partnership - attachment fears, anger, people-pleasing, or old injuries. In a relaxed, focused state, we get your own ship in order first. That is often the fastest route to a better chance of connecting again.
Sessions are delivered online by video, which many clients find private and practical. Online care is first-class. Joint sessions can follow once individual work has created more space. We are always sensitive to the dynamics involved.
We have no magic wands - but most clients find it easier than they thought. Over 40 years we have helped many people feel more love, belonging, and clarity in their closest relationships.
For more on how we use hypnotherapy, see our hypnotherapy overview. You can browse all treatments, read client reviews, or book a free consultation when you are ready.
What you can expect:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a form of therapy that emphasises the important role of critical thinking in how we feel and behave. CBT focuses on changing current thoughts and feelings rather than the past.
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Our NEW address for sessions with Steve is
Suite 8.7, Central House, 1 Ballards Lane, London, N3 1 LQ. The office is opposite Finchley Central Tube on the Barnet Branch of The Northern Line. There is plenty of street parking and the Tube car park - all at a small cost - or the Tesco car park is free :)
"I can never thank you enough for what you’ve done for my husband and I Steve. Your hypnotherapy helped us see the world in colour again. We will always be eternally grateful."
"Today, I am loving myself again and I am no longer hurting myself. This is worth more than I ever thank Kirsten for"
"This man! Words alone do not give him enough praise. If you are looking for a kind, intelligent, caring, thoughtful, and brilliant hypnotherapist, Steve Burns is your guy."
